In rereading my note, I realized that my trite comment on "feeling like an abused wife" was not so funny, my apologies to anyone who may have been offended., BEFORE I receive any retorts. It was out of place and I would have resented it if I were an abused wife as my daughter was for so very long. Sorry, I herewith extend my sincere apologies to all, especially to those who may have suffered the same. Jo Eileen.