I am not too sure of your explanation, it is just too pat and self serving. These Items were for grave sites not for yard remembrances. Think about it, remembrances were printed on paper and framed for use in the house. Just to how many Cemeteries have you gone? Where there are Civil War Veterans are Buried there are GAR and Confederate Organizations Items similar to this Item. I have a number of Civil War Veterans, Both Sides and Anyone taking the SYMBOLS had better watch out, because they would have to answer to me and that is not a threat, that it is a promise! I have suggested to you, that it would be in your best interest, to return the MARKER to the RELATED person and she will place it on the Grave Site where it belongs. Anything less would indicate a less than HONORABLE MOTIVE. Take your MONETARY LOSS and LEARN A LESSON. Personally, I would SUE you and have you charged with GRAVE DESECRATION. You would get no SYMPATHY from me. Richard Callard -----Original Message----- From: Trueway1@aol.com [mailto:Trueway1@aol.com] Sent: Monday, October 06, 2003 12:51 PM To: callard@surfside.net Subject: Re: Question for seller -- Item #2194059513 - reply Hello. Thanks for your email. Here is the same email I have sent a few others who tried to inform us of the same idea. ________ Hello. I had a question for you... are you sure this wasn't just presented to the family for them to put it where they wanted? The people we got it from said it was to do with their distant relative and that their parents had been keeping it in their front yard as a remembrance. Is it possible this could be the situation? Thanks. Bob & Craig