I wish to apologize the members of the List for allowing myself to be provoked by a RUDE, INSENSITIVE person making STUPID REMARKS concerning the GRAVE MARKER. At this time I might suggest that maybe the Pony is in reality the seller of the GRAVE MARKER on E-Bay? I don't know what "Flaming a member" is. If it is taking a stand and speaking up against desecration of Grave Sites then I'm Guilty, And Proud of it! I for one will not suffer Fools. Richard Callard