Hello nn: I am sorry if I caused you any discomfort and please know it was not intentional. I personally cannot answer your heart-felt questions. But I can say because of recent experience with Virginia list/ers the grudges of yesteryear is still strong. And my Heart goes out to both sides because I feel there really still is a North and a South. Happy Memorial Day, --Manaia ++++ --- akeegan <akeegan@wowway.com> wrote: > When I think of the Civil War I wonder if the mother > of a wounded > Confederate solider felt more pain than a Northen > Mother > Did a Confederate soldier feel more pain from hunger > that a Northen soldier > Did the Children of a Southern Soldier miss there > father more than a Union > Soldier's children, No course not So were they > not all brave and noble > Soldiers fighting for what the each believe to be > right . > On this Memorial Day I will honor both and place no > blame on either side > Ann