Hi Trisha: Within the Indian (Native American) sides of my house, they do prefer marriages to our own people. Many relatives, who are 100% native, still dislike and don't trust white people, who they call "White eyes." But, those of we who have married people who are white (European Americans) are tolerated by making that choice. And, how many people in America, whose family came here a very long time, have pure European blood? Each Nation would like to keep the blood as pure as possible. Obviously, that doesn't work these days with people moving to areas were there are few, if any, 100% American Natives. You have to understand the feelings of those who are 100% Native, and, also, of we who have little European blood, if you've read your history and seen what the Europeans did to our people. Even, look at what the Europeans did when they went to other countries and took over. It wasn't a pretty picture, just like it isn't here. Our people did welcome those who came here from Europe, only to be raped of their land and their rights. And, to be white is to be supreme over anyone whose skin is a tad darker. Sad, but, true. Now, think about this. White people will lay on the beach all summer to get a super tan. Why? I've never figured that one out, though, I've been there, done it myself. With all the Native blood running through my veins, me skin is white. Another thing is that some 100% Native Americans have very white skin where the sun don't shine. And, some have beautiful blue eyes. But, you know, we are all God's children and we do need to forgive and forget and accept each human, no matter of their color, as a brother or sister. One of my e-mail friends sent me a cute genealogy thing on the fact that we ALL come from the Adam's family (Adam and Eve) and I feel that's true. God loves we all, so, we need to love others to the best of our ability. The intruder thing was in the past. So, I can't see that it should be a point of discussion now, as it does get some people all upset and they feel they have to defend their old ones for going to Indian Territory who should not have been there. Also, if you haven't done so, read some books on Indian Territory. I got three of them from my local library (inter-library loan) and they are real eye openers and give you more understanding of all of the HONEST people living in those times, Native, and white. They had a lot to put up with in having to deal with all of the outlaws that invaded the Territory, Native and European. Those old relatives were a tough and strong group of people to save their homes and their families from destruction! They all, Native and white, are to be admired! Tolerance is the key to getting along and, after ALL of these years, we all need to get into that mode of thinking! We are ALL equal in God's eyes, so, who are any of we to say someone is lesser in our eyes? Well, sorry to have gotten on my soap box. But, I wanted to give my thoughts on this subject. I don't think I've said anything to offend anyone. Hope not! Be happy and blessed be. Sandi :)