In a message dated 1/7/2006 9:01:30 AM Central Standard Time, shadowbear270@webtv.net writes: Yes the woman was the powerful one and her clan==they could change the chiefs mind very easy==almost a snap of the finger==Remember the one that made the clothes=the one that done the cooking==the one that done the garden==most of all think of the one that had the kids the most valuable part of the tribe Don't even think about crossing the clan==the chiefs never did Thank you for explaining this to me. I have another question. If my Great-greatgrandmothers's name was Graham would that be my Great-grandmother's name? Barbara In Oklahoma Native America