In a message dated 1/7/2006 5:45:31 PM Central Standard Time, M0untainWindS0ng@aol.com writes: I have taught my sons to put family first and to carry their share of the family and home resposibilities Ruth Ruth mine know how to do it all as I told them they never knew when they would need to do for themselves. My sons sure are good mamas and cooks plus they do laundry and anything that needs to be done. Barbara In Oklahoma Native America