In a message dated 1/14/2006 12:35:39 PM Central Standard Time, GLewis2035@aol.com writes: Yes, my dear one and You are right to remove them from your lists , You are NOT right when your silence fall those who love and care about you. Once they are gone from the list let them go from the mind so we can have you back. When the Chief leaves the village we all suffer. grandma