Many of you know this better than me==if the clan would approve of the man ==after a short ceremony he would then move in==all he had to do is make sure his family kept warm ==make sure there was food==if he didn't do this all wife had to do was put his clothes out ==he could not come back==he was not part of the family anymore==the clan made most of the rules and crossing them was not a good thing some times a warrior would get killed he's widow would move in with the man and his family and then he would have two wife SHADOW BEAR