Hi Virginia, I think you may be right about this. It is OK to disagree but not to fight and stay mad. If we disagree and say something that the other person does not agree with or like than we can either say we are sorry or say I am sorry that you do not feel the same way that I do, but let us try to get along and still be friend's because we agree on so many other things but we do not agree on everything. We should never change the way we feel on a subject just to make friends or make someone happy, this is not right, we state how we feel and move on to something else. Maybe if someone states something that we do not agree on and it makes us mad - we should count to 10 and remember that everyone has the right to their own opinion and it does not have to match our own. Sometimes we get angry and lash out with our tongues and then are sorry later. Tonya ----- Original Message ----- From: "Virginia A." <vdach@gte.net> To: <CHEROKEE-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, January 14, 2006 3:10 PM Subject: Re: [Cherokee Circle] Who Is Indian? > Do husbands and wives always get along? Siblings? Fighting is just a part > of life. It is how we react to it, that is important. > > Virginia > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Alli" <iamcheroke@filertel.com> > To: <CHEROKEE-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Saturday, January 14, 2006 11:51 AM > Subject: Re: [Cherokee Circle] Who Is Indian? > > > > Inside or outside there is fighting..........Suppose to be 1, suppose to > > stand together. but a lot have lost the ways of their ancestor's & lost > the > > path of their ancestor's, so they have become like any other person. > > Struggling to find their identity, struggling to become as one, trying to > be > > right all of the time and no more listening > > > > Alli :( > > > > =============================================================== > > > Why do the people living in the nation fight each other. I do not > > > understand this. > > > Are we not 1 people????? > > > > > > Barb sc > > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > > > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > > > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > > > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > > > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner below > > > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > > > > > ============================== > > > Search the US Census Collection. Over 140 million records added in the > > > last 12 months. Largest online collection in the world. Learn more: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/s13965/rd.ashx > > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner below > > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > > > ============================== > > Census images 1901, 1891, 1881 and 1871, plus so much more. > > Ancestry.com's United Kingdom & Ireland Collection. Learn more: > http://www.ancestry.com/s13968/rd.ashx > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner below > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > ============================== > Search the US Census Collection. Over 140 million records added in the > last 12 months. Largest online collection in the world. Learn more: http://www.ancestry.com/s13965/rd.ashx > >

Peace be with you, Tonya. Virginia ----- Original Message ----- From: "Tonya Luckey" <luckeytonya@atlanticbb.net> To: <CHEROKEE-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, January 14, 2006 7:00 PM Subject: Re: [Cherokee Circle] Who Is Indian? > Hi Virginia, > I think you may be right about this. It is OK to disagree > but not to fight and stay mad. If we disagree and say something that the > other person does not agree with or like than we can either say we are sorry > or say I am sorry that you do not feel the same way that I do, but let us > try to get along and still be friend's because we agree on so many other > things but we do not agree on everything. We should never change the way we > feel on a subject just to make friends or make someone happy, this is not > right, we state how we feel and move on to something else. Maybe if someone > states something that we do not agree on and it makes us mad - we should > count to 10 and remember that everyone has the right to their own opinion > and it does not have to match our own. Sometimes we get angry and lash out > with our tongues and then are sorry later. > > Tonya > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Virginia A." <vdach@gte.net> > To: <CHEROKEE-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Saturday, January 14, 2006 3:10 PM > Subject: Re: [Cherokee Circle] Who Is Indian? > > > > Do husbands and wives always get along? Siblings? Fighting is just a > part > > of life. It is how we react to it, that is important. > > > > Virginia > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Alli" <iamcheroke@filertel.com> > > To: <CHEROKEE-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Saturday, January 14, 2006 11:51 AM > > Subject: Re: [Cherokee Circle] Who Is Indian? > > > > > > > Inside or outside there is fighting..........Suppose to be 1, suppose to > > > stand together. but a lot have lost the ways of their ancestor's & lost > > the > > > path of their ancestor's, so they have become like any other person. > > > Struggling to find their identity, struggling to become as one, trying > to > > be > > > right all of the time and no more listening > > > > > > Alli :( > > > > > > =============================================================== > > > > Why do the people living in the nation fight each other. I do not > > > > understand this. > > > > Are we not 1 people????? > > > > > > > > Barb sc > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > > > > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > > > > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > > > > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > > > > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner > below > > > > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > Search the US Census Collection. Over 140 million records added in the > > > > last 12 months. Largest online collection in the world. Learn more: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/s13965/rd.ashx > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > > > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > > > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > > > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > > > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner below > > > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > > > > > ============================== > > > Census images 1901, 1891, 1881 and 1871, plus so much more. > > > Ancestry.com's United Kingdom & Ireland Collection. Learn more: > > http://www.ancestry.com/s13968/rd.ashx > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner below > > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > > > ============================== > > Search the US Census Collection. Over 140 million records added in the > > last 12 months. Largest online collection in the world. Learn more: > http://www.ancestry.com/s13965/rd.ashx > > > > > > > > ==== CHEROKEE Mailing List ==== > <<>OPEN forum to all Cherokee topics - except Genealogy<>> > <>Culture-History-Language-Folk lore and Truths<> > Good Manners & Language is required to be on the list > ALL the links you will need to sub and unsub or contact listowner below > http://lists.rootsweb.com/index/other/Ethnic-Native/CHEROKEE.html > > ============================== > Search Family and Local Histories for stories about your family and the > areas they lived. Over 85 million names added in the last 12 months. > Learn more: http://www.ancestry.com/s13966/rd.ashx > >