A lovely quote, John. I also ponder the simple twists of fate which occurred for lifetimes upon lifetimes which brought me to this world. Actions occurred and decisions were made, obstacles presented, problems solved, tears shed in joy and sorrow, medical science intervened or did not and this mixture of blood flows through my veins. My ancestors are not phantoms; they are my life's blood. Thanks to everyone for sharing all of your information and love. The 5th great granddaughter of Thomas Westcott and Chloe Carpenter, Barb