Hi, Joanne. I have a list of 6 children of Stephen, Sr., too; probably from the same source: Stephen, Barnabus, Thomas, Nellie, Elizabeth and Rachel with no documentation. I would be very interested in any old land records you have for Stephen, Sr. In order for Nellie and my Eleanor to be one and the same, Nellie would have to be born no later than 1787, and that's stretching it. 1770 to 1780 might be more like it. I have him in Mamakating, NY in 1790 and in Wallkill, NY in 1800. During one of his stints in the Revolutionary War(1780) he was posted at Mamakating. Are any of your land records from the 1760s or the 1770s? I would love to know what town or towns he lived in during that period in order to pinpoint what church records to examine. You can contact me directly at: smithcommunique@home.com. Jim Smith