Hello, Both of my parents had a much younger brother, both of whom were born on "Valentine's Day." Both born in 1930's. My father's younger, half-brother, joined the Army either during or right after high school. As many other soldiers did, he ended up in Germany. He met a young lady there and they fell in love. He brought her back to the US, and I think they married here. He was only 10 years older than me. So I have an aunt who is only 6 yrs. older than me. I don't remember there being any "discussions" in my father's family about having a lady born in Germany in their family. Over to my mother's younger brother, he also joined the Army - even before he graduated. While in the Army, he met a young lady in MA, and they fell in love and wanted to marry. But, horrors, she was a "divorcee" and worse than that, she had - a child. There were many "discussions" about this situation. Both my uncle and his wife had a nice wedding but both were hurt by all the "discussions" and they became partly estranged from the family because of it ! That was the 1950's ! They were an "Army family" and moved to many states. And I don't think I've seen this uncle and aunt since the 1960's; they didn't even come home for the parents' funerals. They had a daughter of their own, and then adopted a son. I've never met their son. Cousins will be cousins, and we tried to keep in touch with the 2 daughters. Some cousins traveled to their home for vacations. Last summer one of the daughters surprised all of us at our annual "cousins get-together" - when she flew up from a southern state to attend the cookout ! She was the daughter from her mother's first marriage, and she was made to feel "family" last summer, and she really appreciated it. My parents came from 2, different kinds of families. One with a lot of "pride" and one with - not quite so much. "Proper Bostonians" were not always in MA/US. Betty (near Lowell, MA, USA) (We know a man who fathered a child while in the Army and in Germany. We don't know the circumstances, but he came back and married here and had children with his wife. As it turned out? Both daughters ended up with the same first-name - unbeknownst to him.)