This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/rw/mNC.2ACE/1871.2.1 Message Board Post: I think you should apologize to Jen for rubbbing her nose in the fact that you found yours! You may not have intended to be insensitive, but that's how it came across.