Hi Wendy The relationship of niece is to the head of household in 1881 (ie Charles J ALCOCK) Ruths parents were Marriages Dec 1856 Alcock Sarah Buckingham 3a 769 Allcock Sarah Buckingham 3a 769 Frost Richard Buckingham 3a 769 As to your possible marriage, this appears on freebmd Marriages Dec 1884 Alcock Charles John Winslow 3a 943 Elley Ann Winslow 3a 943 Of course you would need the marriage cert to confirm they are the people you seek Best wishes Nivard Ovington, in Cornwall (UK) > Hi List, > > The 1881 Census for bucks tells me that Charles J Alcock, farmer, 44yrs > was an unmarried head of the house,Loughton > His servant, Anne Elley (one of mine) was also unmarried, 30 yrs. > > I beleive they may have married a few years later, can anyone check the > next census to see if this is correct? > > Also they have a Ruth Froast (maybe Frost), neice, unmarried, 20 yrs, born > brill, bucks. Living in the same dwelling Loughton in the 1881 census. > Anyone know who she may be? or how she is related? > > > Thanks for any help as always > Cheers Wendy > in Australia