Hi Miriam, Yesterday you asked about your "problem" of Henry FRIEND and his wives viz: Mary/Martha who is 28 in 1871 census and mother of Lipman (Jack), Rebecca & Etty (Henrietta) and Selina who is 28 in 1881 census and mother of 9 children starting with Dinah in Feb 1878. I said I would try searching my records for possible matches as you can't find either the death/burial of Mary/Martha or the marriage to Selina. On 7 July 1875 a Mary FRIEDENHAM was buried or died (as I never quite know if the date given is for the death or the burial). This comes from what is now UHC Gildersome records. Just wondering if this is worth further investigation. Best wishes Sherry (Salford LAN)