>>On 7 July 1875 a Mary FRIEDENHAM was buried or died (as I never quite know if the date given is for the death or the burial). This comes from what is now UHC Gildersome records. Just wondering if this is worth further investigation.>> Thank you Sherry. I will follow this up & get the death cert. I have to say I doubt it's the right one because apart from the name being sustantially different, the age given on burial is 23: Mrs. Mary FRIEND would have been 32 at the time of her death. Her last child with Henry was Rebecca, born Sep 1870. The next wife (Selina FRANKEL) gave birth to Etty on 31 Jan 1876. So presumably, the second marriage should have taken place no later than c. May 1875. Henry was also called Herman & Harris. The FRANKEL family have been called FRINKLE, FRENKEL & became FRANKLIN, where they exist in South Africa today. Thanks so much for looking for me. Miriam Margolyes New York