On Sat, 04 Jan 2014 12:44:21 -0000, Nivard Ovington <ovington.one@gmail.com> wrote: > Continue to help others as *you* feel fit > I am often surprised but lately resigned to the lack of response you get > when helping others, Hi Nivard, Thank you for your response. After many years helping with family history on and off list, like you I am also resigned to the fact that there is often a lack of response. But the lack of response in this case seems to have been a decision not to make contact again with me because I had annoyed my correspondent by finding the new information. I'm using the word 'annoyed' but the actual word used was one, which I would not use, myself, which accounts partly for my distress. Josephine