Joyce, I'm sorry to hear for your loss as well. You will receive many messages of condolance and well deserved. My father passed over just a month ago and the shock truly takes something from you for a few days..then reality comes back and you can slowly recoop. Just know that all of us on the list are here for you..we pray for you and your family even if you don't know us personally. We are, after all, one big family scattered like wildflowers across this world, each blooming in its own space. Time and cherished memories will sustain you for the present, but when you are ready..remember we are all out here for you in friendship and a distant lineage of cousins. God keep you and bless you as you go through this fog. Sunny (Azuredaze@aol.com)