As long as you reply to the list, we all get it. If you get to the point where you want to talk with just the two of us then cut and paste our addresses into the "To" line in a new message. On Thu, Jul 9, 2009 at 11:36 AM, Don and Mary <dande5604@cox.net> wrote: > This is very confusing, I agree. I do not have James or Jane as siblings > for Catharine. I am trying to figure out if I reply to you, if it goes to > Linnie. Or, do I need to reply through the bowles@ rootsweb.com so that > both of you get the info or questions. > Thanks so much. > Mary > >