Since the person is asking for a response I would probably do so but I would tell them that private communications are beyond the control of any board admin. You may also advise them to contact the help desk with any other concerns that they may have. J. Asche On Mon, Dec 21, 2009 at 11:14 PM, Nancy <pelhamassociation@yahoo.com> wrote: > Quoted objection on one of my boards: I've replaced names: > > "I am not sure what is taking place in this posting. I contacted a XXXX family member and was told that they are in touch, as of today, with the lady that this person is supposedly attempting to gather information for. The XXXX family member has been in touch with the older lady on a continuous basis over the years and feels there is no reason for YYYY YYYYYYY to be attempting to locate family to make contact with her great aunt as she suggests she is doing. I would appreciate hearing from you in this regard as I am concerned by the actions of this person. Thank you." > > Objector did sign his name. Objector did not participate in the thread. > > I don't think it is any of my (as board admin) business nor any of the objector's business. What was HE doing contacting the XXXX family? > > I prefer to reject the objection and not correspond with the objector. But if you think I should contact the objector, is there anything else I should say beyond it's none of our business? > > Thanks, Nancy >