reply to KansasGirl-I did find information on Delilah in a couple areas.1880 census has her listed as a 56 yr old widow from TN along with children Martha C.17,David 21,Henry W.14,Nancy A.Harper grand daughter13,Lucy F.Harper 8 and Laura Harper7(grand daughters were orphans born in MO but from Ill,and TN.Calvin died before the census.Sept 2 1865(makes you wonder about Henry W age 14.NJ