Let me clarify the rule on religion. The rule doesn't prohibit the discussion of the religious aspects of genealogy or of living, but seeks to avoid evangelism on the list. The current discussion, religious support and "faith" are important to dealing with a blacksheep situation. I am in favor of prayer ( but not publically posted on a GENEALOGY LIST) and any support we can offer to our members including the recommendation of relgious support. CAUION the details shuld NOT be posted on-list, the archives are "forever", and publically viewable. Jeff