"Has anyone ever had a person real close to them in serious trouble? Real Serious. I am not sure that I can handle this. I just had some horrible news and I am at a loss what to do. How does one survive through an ordeal like this? I know I can pray, but my heart is broke." Well, probably............dunno if you don't tell us what exactly the situation is tho............. Since most of us have applied to the black sheep list, serious trouble with family is not really all that uncommon to us whether way in the past or current............ I saw my brother in law on the six o'clock news spread over the hood of a truck with hand cuffs , close up and all.......and for the first time in our lives they managed to say our last name correctly.......go figure......... and that is the mild stuff. We all have kin or close friends who have had awful things happen from murder to extreme mental illness related situations............depends on what you are talking about. e

Time heals all pains. Have survived deaths of my 2 husbands, my baby(6 days old), and being jailed for something I didn't do. Recently was beaten half to death, lost an eye, and right side of my face was crushed. Am going to break the rules. Jeff you can slap me on wrist or whatever. But I survived through faith in a higher power, who when times were darkest never deserted me. Not like my ex-boyfriend(10yrs), I caught cheating, or my family. He never laughed at my mistakes or shook his finger at me. Am proud member of the IBSSG --------------------------------- Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software