Yes it certainly does belong in that category. When my son asked me why this was happening to him I told him, " Think about it, what did you do to your wife?" "Now it is payback time." Believe me it hurt me more to have to say that to him than it did him, but it was the truth. He has 4 children now and when he becomes a grandparent, he certainly will fit into the Blacksheep category for his descendants, having been in prison for the first three years of his oldest son's life, in jail for a year of his daughters second year of life, facing another prison sentence now, in and out of jail since he was 15 and a philandering husband to boot having a child with his mistress. Yep a real blacksheep in my opiniion. He even called this girl his Fiancee and he is not even divorced form his wife. Yep payback big time. Even after all he has done his wife still loves him and would love to have him back. I hope he wises up and accepts her and forgets the mistress. Even after all the jail and prison time, being in jail for the birth of 2 of his children has not stopped her from loving him and being faithful to him. Mary Anne Cook Frankfort, Indiana ----- Original Message ----- From: "Bobby & Sue Bates" <bsbates@netease.net> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2003 9:16 PM Subject: Re: [BSChat] How I spent my summer vacation > Mary Anne Cook wrote.... > >.... Now she has done to him the very same thing that she made him do to his wife and kids. Is it no wonder that I hate her so much?< > > Oh, me!!! Well, I guess that falls into the 'What Goes Around Comes Around' category. I can certainly understand where you're coming from, Mary Anne. Having been on the receiving end of a philandering (ex) spouse, in my experience, I'd have to say that it usually takes two in order for that type of situation to occur. > Cheer up, somewhere on down the road there's going to be someone that will do to that young lady what she's been doing to others...... (I would hope!) > Best, > SueB > http://www.cdbaby.com/suegilmore > > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Unsubscribe from the list: > Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsub scribe > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > >