He said it to hurt Mellie, directly and indirectly, through the kids, trying to undermine her in their eyes, think less of her. It's a diversion. He knows what he is. Wants to try to make Mellie look bad some how. Looks like he has to stretch a long ways, the SOB. I had an ex like that, too. Didn't care what he had to say to make me look bad, and didn't care how much it hurt the kids. Mine told my youngest, my son, that I didn't earn any money at work. So, one day he asked me why I go to work and leave him with someone else if I don't make any money. I don't think I ever hated anyone before I heard that. My son was really asking why I was rejecting him. Jan G. ----Original Message Follows---- From: ScismGenie@aol.com Reply-To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com Subject: Re: [BSChat] ACHES AND PAINS Date: Sat, 4 May 2002 11:12:58 EDT In a message dated 5/4/2002 2:38:34 AM Pacific Daylight Time, Mel@i12.com writes: > Kids dad has decided they are not his and told thm so with the addage "but > it means nothing I love you like my own" if it means nothing why say it? You need to discuss this with your kids before the "concept" cements. You should also requwest Paternity tests at his expense, since he is making the claims, if you are involved in alimony determination, and he claims "they are not mine" then he should put up or shut up. He is ABUSIVE to tell the kids this, even if the one had not just gone through traumatic surgery, what a PUTZ. Sounds like you need him out of the kids lives, and yours. Jeffery G. Scism, IBSSG, (http://blacksheep.rootsweb.com) ~~ Coordinator, C h u r c h i l l Nevada U S G e n W e b Site Co-Coordinator, Inmontgo-L, Montgomery County, Indiana, U S G e n W e b Site manager of the following Rootsweb Lists: B l a c k s h e e p, L a n d e s, L a n d i s, P e f f l e y, S c i s m, E n d i c o t t, S h i p w r e c k, Inmontgo (Mont. Co. Indiana), NVChurch (Churchill Co. Nv.) ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== Unsubscribe from the list: Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsubscribe ============================== To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 _________________________________________________________________ Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: http://mobile.msn.com