Asking you, Mel... Thank heavens you got the check! Big, powerful, car uh? I'd rather have a small, fast one, something sporty. Been there, done that, with ex-husband...mine turned into a back-biter sneak. He couldn't understand why I didn't want to baby, pamper him, cook, do his laundry, & shack-up with him anymore. He thought he was the greatest lover ever, on mother-earth....I was there to tell the World otherwise. On a scale of 1-10, he didn't even register. (I'd had few experiences with other guys before I married him...so I could compare). I divorced him once, then married him again (fool that I was in 1964). I did the opposite of you...I told him son Kyle (Alaska), wasn't his. Drove him nuts, because the old man adores Kyle. But I've never changed my story. When I was in Alaska last year, Kyle, my Mom, and I were sitting at the table, and my Mom said: "I don't know where you found Kyle...he doesn't look like anyone else I know..." Kyle looked at me and said: "Maybe I'm illegitimate, uh Mom?" And I looked right into his blue eyes & said: "Only I know....darling." Jan C. -----Original Message----- From: Mellie <Mel@i12.com> To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Date: Saturday, May 04, 2002 3:37 AM Subject: Re: [BSChat] ACHES AND PAINS >Jan C, are you asking me or jack? >for my part things have not been to bad, Got the cheque this morning from >the insurance, paid me over the value for my car so I am happy with that, >will get a new car end of the week when the cheque clears through the bank, >got my eye on something big and powerful, LOL. >Kids dad has decided they are not his and told thm so with the addage "but >it means nothing I love you like my own" if it means nothing why say it? I >told the kids to ask their dad, on what basis does he make that statement? >who does he suspect to be their father then the bloody tooth fairy, its not >like he will pay more Allimoney, guess it fits his lies of "she had an affar >so I had one" thats OK for his family as they are the same, but not OK for >me as its not true, I am beginning to wish it was actually, get slammed for >something I did not something I didn't do! >think his timing stinks, to start giving the kids emotional grief, that >comes to nothing and leaves them wondering what the hell is going on, >especially for Nat, my middle child for those of you who don't know I can >now report that on 20th April he had a Bi-lateral Mastectomy, we have to go >back to the Hospital every few days for him to have a Blood clot drained >off, but other that that he is fine and there are no complications or >serious illnesses attached to the operation, its the absolute best thing >that I have ever heard, so their dad does this, I never thought he would get >this twisted! My friends all reckon its his way of getting at me because I >called "time" on our relationship, and he still harbours , well harbours >whatever, me i couldn't care less its done its past i have moved on, seems >he has moved on to other relationships but has not actually "moved on"! I >could willfully strangle him with my bear hands for this episode of hurting >the kids, its the one thing I did not wnat to happen, but they are old >enough to make the dicision to see him, and at teh moment he is still "god" >whatever he says, Me I jsut let it go over my head, one day they will know >the truth for themselves, when they have kkids of their own and someone lies >to them, they will know how I feel right now, but I hope they never have to >feel that pain either, guess thats the differnce between me and that thing I >lived with who turned into Mr psycho when he could not get his own way! >other than that Jan, things are fine right now! >Mellie >IBSSG > >How Come My Coat Of Arms has Ties At The Back? > >List Admin: > AUS-NSW-SURNAMES-L@rootsweb.com BAGNALL-L@rootsweb.com >BATE-L@rootsweb.com > BENTON-ENG-L@rootsweb.com BLACKHAM-L@rootsweb.com FEREDAY-L@rootsweb.com >HOLLOWOOD-L@rootsweb.com HOWDLE-L@rootsweb.com > > > > >--- >Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. >Attachments are not enclosed unless previously notified >My AVG is updated every 24 hours >Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). >Version: 6.0.351 / Virus Database: 197 - Release Date: 19/04/02 > > >==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== >Unsubscribe from the list: >Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsu bscribe > >============================== >To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: >http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

>Asking you, Mel... Thank heavens you got the check! Big, powerful, car uh? I'd rather have a small, fast one, something sporty.< jan, so would I, but its still a case of practicalities, i am afraid, on saying that the car I have in Mind is both, its big and powerful but can take on most comers, except the car I had stolen, the only things that could outrun her were stuff like Porche and the police helicopter LOL what really got up my nose is that the small 2 door sports model i was planning for after the sproggs have gone,or got their own cars, is EXACTLY what their Dad turned up in I could hate him just for that, but is does show the attraction I guess we had, we had such similar likes, and like most women, I could read him better than a book, I KNEW before he did things that he was going to do them, that really ticked him off! Mellie IBSSG How Come My Coat Of Arms has Ties At The Back? List Admin: AUS-NSW-SURNAMES-L@rootsweb.com BAGNALL-L@rootsweb.com BATE-L@rootsweb.com BENTON-ENG-L@rootsweb.com BLACKHAM-L@rootsweb.com FEREDAY-L@rootsweb.com HOLLOWOOD-L@rootsweb.com HOWDLE-L@rootsweb.com --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Attachments are not enclosed unless previously notified My AVG is updated every 24 hours Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.351 / Virus Database: 197 - Release Date: 19/04/02