Jack - you've always said Kade's mom is mentally ill. Not knowing, but maybe she just can't stand being around your house? Meaning that, it's obvious she doesn't love you, and doesn't want to be around you...she may love Kade a lot, but you have control & custody of Kade. There are always two sides to every story. I'd love to hear Kade's mom tell her story. After all, she detests you so much, she wanted you dead...? Hired a hit-man... I feel sorry for Kade...all of the turmoil in her life. Jan C. -----Original Message----- From: JACK CHILDERS <jaxone1234@msn.com> To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Date: Friday, May 03, 2002 7:36 AM Subject: Re: [BSChat] ACHES AND PAINS >You know, Jan G., you are so right. When my own mother died I was greatly sad, not especially about her dying, but over what could have been between us and never was. I wasn't done knowing my mother and there she died on me ! > >Yes, I realize Kade has erected a defense mechanism about her mama and there is really nothing I can do about it except be there for her. I worked so hard to try and make a family for Kade's sake, putting up with everything from fit throwing to attempted murder on her part, and it was all for nothing. Hindsight would have me ship mama off the day Kade was born, but that's hindsight. Oh well, we go on. > >Jack Childers in OKC > > >==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== >Unsubscribe from the list: >Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsu bscribe > >============================== >To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: >http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >