In a message dated 5/14/02 3:21:09 PM Mountain Daylight Time, zippywebgenie@hotmail.com writes: > You don't know if he visits playgrounds or hangs > around schools. Is he active in kids activities in the church? Is he > treated > there as someone who is trusted? > > What is the fear factor that you mentioned? His daughters in fear of him? > Why? Aren't they adults now? How are they protecting their daughters? > Jan G., I know for a fact that he doesn't frequent the play grounds. He now has some severe health problems. He is 71. The Fear Factor lasts until you say something about it to another adult, of course they don't believe it, usually you don't say anymore about it. Of course before this we were talking and acting among our cousins. The Fear factor didn't have any bearing there, we had all been approached by him. BTW, on a personal level, do you enjoy being called a liar? Ostracized and ridiculed by your own family? This is no fun, I don't recommend placing yourself in that position, ever. ENOUGH Aleta, IBSSG, Charter Member Bo-Peep Award Ogden, Utah, USA "God sent his Singers upon the Earth, With songs of Gladness and Mirth. That they might touch the hearts of men, And bring them to Heaven again." --Longfellow