Hey, Mike!!!! Great to know you're still out there!!! Best, SueB http://www.cdbaby.com/suegilmore ----- Original Message ----- From: grinch42@mindspring.com To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com Sent: Saturday, 13 September, 2003 8:12 PM Subject: Re: [BSChat] Re: Lawns as a metaphor for the fall of man I, too, like the metaphor. And yes, I didn't really fall off the edge of the Earth! I've been living in Central America (Belize) for a bit over 2 months now, but only recently got my internet service by having a microwave antenna installed on the roof so I can go through Mexico to connect to an internet sattelite link...technology has arrived in the 3rd world! Of course, I'm still trying to catch up on everything which went down in the last 3 months, so I still have over 200 Black Sheep postings to take a quick look at. Mike, IBSSG

I, too, like the metaphor. And yes, I didn't really fall off the edge of the Earth! I've been living in Central America (Belize) for a bit over 2 months now, but only recently got my internet service by having a microwave antenna installed on the roof so I can go through Mexico to connect to an internet sattelite link...technology has arrived in the 3rd world! Of course, I'm still trying to catch up on everything which went down in the last 3 months, so I still have over 200 Black Sheep postings to take a quick look at. Mike, IBSSG -----Original Message----- From: Bobby & Sue Bates <bsbates@netease.net> Sent: Jul 11, 2003 11:18 PM To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com Subject: Re: [BSChat] Re: Lawns as a metaphor for the fall of man Wonderful analogy there, Dave! I like it!!! ;-) Best, SueB http://www.cdbaby.com/suegilmore ----- Original Message ----- From: Dave To: BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com Sent: Friday, 11 July, 2003 8:46 PM Subject: [BSChat] Re: Lawns as a metaphor for the fall of man It is said that God created grass ; and it was the Devil who invented the lawn; and our task of lawn-tending is like a Prometheus, ever rolling without an end to the suffering. Wildflowers, however attract more birds. ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== Unsubscribe from the list: Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsubscribe ============================== To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== Blacksheep-Chat-L@rootsweb.com is a wide spectrum Chat List, Topics allowed are almost anything.restrictions are: Political discussion, religious prosylitizing, and aggressive behavior, any of these topics will result in restricted priveleges. ============================== To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237

hey! that must explain some of the census takers!!!!!!!! LOL! Evie ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jeff" <scismgenie@adelphia.net> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, September 13, 2003 6:58 PM Subject: [BSChat] The power of the mind to correct what we see. > Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at an Elingsh uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in > waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht > the frist and lsat ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl > mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae we do > not raed ervey lteter by itslef but the wrod as a wlohe. > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Creative use of your delete key is encouraged. If you disagree with the subject, CHANGE the subject. > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

Gee, Jeff, I know people whose typing looks just like that!! ;-) Best, SueB http://www.cdbaby.com/suegilmore

Mine does when the Speel Chukar gets done with it. Jeff

Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at an Elingsh uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae we do not raed ervey lteter by itslef but the wrod as a wlohe.

> > > "How does one survive through an ordeal like this? I >know I can pray, but my heart is broke." > > An important thing to realize is that all the embarrassment, all the angst, and unease, and anger, and other emotions - do not lower your WORTH ; You are a hundred other things; parent, spouse, taxpayer, gardener; loyal citizen; etc. etc. and all those descriptives that seem to be of no special significance are actually very important, because they add up to a lot more than the aggravation and distress that confront you.

I do not know why Jeff would slap you on the wrist or whatever. Is this something you are not allowed to talk about? Is so why not? Whitewolf ----- Original Message ----- From: "Brenda Faye Parker" <fairplay51@yahoo.com> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Thursday, September 04, 2003 10:35 AM Subject: [BSChat] OH NO! > Time heals all pains. Have survived deaths of my 2 husbands, my baby(6 days old), and being jailed for something I didn't do. Recently was beaten half to death, lost an eye, and right side of my face was crushed. > > Am going to break the rules. Jeff you can slap me on wrist or whatever. But I survived through faith in a higher power, who when times were darkest never deserted me. Not like my ex-boyfriend(10yrs), I caught cheating, or my family. He never laughed at my mistakes or shook his finger at me. > > > Am proud member of the IBSSG > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Creative use of your delete key is encouraged. If you disagree with the subject, CHANGE the subject. > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

Let me clarify the rule on religion. The rule doesn't prohibit the discussion of the religious aspects of genealogy or of living, but seeks to avoid evangelism on the list. The current discussion, religious support and "faith" are important to dealing with a blacksheep situation. I am in favor of prayer ( but not publically posted on a GENEALOGY LIST) and any support we can offer to our members including the recommendation of relgious support. CAUION the details shuld NOT be posted on-list, the archives are "forever", and publically viewable. Jeff

Please be cartefull of forwarding "Extra" text and clutter in forwarded posts. and be careful of deleting extranious email addressees, no need to expand the spam activity. Thanks. Jeff

Time heals all pains. Have survived deaths of my 2 husbands, my baby(6 days old), and being jailed for something I didn't do. Recently was beaten half to death, lost an eye, and right side of my face was crushed. Am going to break the rules. Jeff you can slap me on wrist or whatever. But I survived through faith in a higher power, who when times were darkest never deserted me. Not like my ex-boyfriend(10yrs), I caught cheating, or my family. He never laughed at my mistakes or shook his finger at me. Am proud member of the IBSSG --------------------------------- Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software

----- Original Message ----- From: "Brenda Faye Parker" <fairplay51@yahoo.com> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Tuesday, September 02, 2003 5:24 PM Subject: [BSChat] Fwd: I am A Chocolate Brownie > > > Debra Williams <angelsdkw@yahoo.com> wrote:Date: Tue, 2 Sep 2003 15:48:36 -0700 (PDT) > From: Debra Williams > Subject: Fwd: I am A Carrot Cake!! > To: Paula Ann Milligan > , > Faye Parker , deborah Frank , > Billy & Mayme Bearden , > Lisa Ensley > > > Note: forwarded message attached. > > > __________________________________ > Do you Yahoo!? > Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software > http://sitebuilder.yahoo.com > > > ATTACHMENT part 2 message/rfc822 > Date: Sun, 31 Aug 2003 01:20:57 -0400 (EDT) > From: Tngranny1950@aol.com > Subject: Fwd: I am Strawberry Shortcake > To: AnniejoB@aol.com, Mom2totsnteens@aol.com, LChernack@aol.com, > PokaDot240064697@aol.com, fibrobuds@groups.aol.com, JACKSSSOXOX@aol.com, > FUNMOM55@aol.com, JULIAECPPL@aol.com, JnLHoogie@aol.com, > legateb@bellsouth.net, BluLiteGlo@aol.com, Pooky1380@aol.com, > Micki55555@aol.com, GUGGLEGOO@aol.com, PBove3274@aol.com, SANND505@aol.com, > saconnolly@charter.net, TrishR4U@aol.com, Justvalorie@aol.com > > UNLESS~ It 's christmas and then I'm Carrot cake, oh I better read that one first. LOL > > > ATTACHMENT part 2.2 message/rfc822 > From: Grandbingo@aol.com > Date: Sat, 30 Aug 2003 23:44:42 EDT > Subject: I am Carrot Cake > To: JULIAECPPL@aol.com, fmsboards@groups.aol.com, SillyGals@aol.com, > thx4life2003@yahoo.com, Tngranny1950@aol.com > > In a message dated 8/29/2003 7:02:05 PM Central Standard Time, JULIAECPPL@aol.com writes: > > > > > >No cheating. Pick your cake, then look to see. Take this cake > > > > >Personality test, then send this email on to others. When you send > > this > > > > >email on, put your cake in the subject box above. ALSO SEND IT TO THE > > > > >PERSON WHO SENT IT TO YOU! (because I want to know!) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >If you were buying sweets and you had your choice of the following > > > > >which would you choose? > > > > > > > > > > > >* Angel food > > > > > >* Brownies > > > > > >* Lemon Meringue > > > > > >* Vanilla with Chocolate Icing > > > > > >* Strawberry Short Cake > > > > > >* Chocolate on Chocolate > > > > > >* Ice Cream > > > > > >* Carrot Cake > > > > > > > > > > > >OK- Now that you've made your choice, this is what research says > > > >about > > > > >you! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >NO.... you can't change your mind once you scroll down! So think > > > > >carefully, > > > > > >what your choice will be!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Angel food ... Sweet, loving, cuddly. You love all warm and fuzzy > > > > >items. A little nutty at times. Sometimes you need an ice cream cone > > at > > > > >the end of the day. Others perceive you as being child-like and > > >immature > > > > >at times. > > > > > > > > > > > > Brownies.. You are adventurous, love new ideas, are a champion of > > > > >underdogs and a slayer of dragons. When tempers flare up, you whip > out > > > > >your saber. You are always the oddball with a unique sense of humor > > and > > > > >direction. You tend to be very loyal. > > > > > > > > > > > >Lemon Meringue... Smooth, sexy, & articulate with your hands, you > > are > > > > >an excellent after-dinner speaker and a good teacher. But don't try > to > > > > > >walk and chew gum at the same time. A bit of a diva at times, but > > you > > > > >have many friends. > > > > > > > > > > > >Vanilla with Chocolate Icing ... Fun-loving, sassy, humorous. Not > > >very > > > > >grounded in life, very indecisive and lack motivation. Everyone > enjoys > > > > >being around you, but you are a practical joker. Others should be > > > > >cautious in making you mad, however, you are a friend for life. > > > > > > > > > > > >Strawberry Short Cake ... Romantic, warm, loving. You care about > > > > >otherStrawberry Short Cake ... Romantic, warm, loving. You care about > > > > >other people and can be counted on in a pinch. You tend to melt. You > > >can > > > > >be overly-emotional and annoying at times. > > > > > > > > > > > >Chocolate on Chocolate . Sexy, always ready to give and receive. > > Very > > > > >creative, adventurous, ambitious, and passionate. You have a cold > > > > >exterior but are warm on the inside. Not afraid to take chances. Will > > > > >not settle for anything average in life. Love to laugh. > > > > > > > > > > > >Ice Cream... You like sports, whether it be baseball, football, > > > > >basketball, or soccer. If you could, you would like to participate, > > but > > > > >you enjoy watching sports. You don't like to give up the remote > > >control. > > > > >You tend to be self-centered and high maintenance. > > > > > > > > > > > >Carrot Cake... You are a very fun loving person, who likes to > laugh. > > > > >You are fun to be with. People like to hang out with you. You are a > > >very > > > > >warm-hearted person and a little quirky at times. You have many loyal > > > > >friends. > > > > > > > > > > > >******************DON'T FORGET ******************* > > > > > >PUT YOUR CHOICE OF CAKE IN SUBJECT BOX ABOVE BEFORE YOU FORWARD!! > > > > > Am proud member of the IBSSG > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Creative use of your delete key is encouraged. 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"Has anyone ever had a person real close to them in serious trouble? Real Serious. I am not sure that I can handle this. I just had some horrible news and I am at a loss what to do. How does one survive through an ordeal like this? I know I can pray, but my heart is broke." Well, probably............dunno if you don't tell us what exactly the situation is tho............. Since most of us have applied to the black sheep list, serious trouble with family is not really all that uncommon to us whether way in the past or current............ I saw my brother in law on the six o'clock news spread over the hood of a truck with hand cuffs , close up and all.......and for the first time in our lives they managed to say our last name correctly.......go figure......... and that is the mild stuff. We all have kin or close friends who have had awful things happen from murder to extreme mental illness related situations............depends on what you are talking about. e

Sandra's Charity & Unity nicknames got me thinking about nicknames...I know we shared some a few weeks ago when I was trying to find out whether Sadie would be a nickname for Sarah. Does anyone have an ancestor (heck, maybe even yourself!) with a funny/strange/whatever nickname? My grandma's name is Myra, and my grandpa's sisters have always called her "Myrrh." Grandma laughs and says she's a gift, all right. Sue G.

Debra Williams <angelsdkw@yahoo.com> wrote:Date: Tue, 2 Sep 2003 15:48:36 -0700 (PDT) From: Debra Williams Subject: Fwd: I am A Carrot Cake!! To: Paula Ann Milligan , Faye Parker , deborah Frank , Billy & Mayme Bearden , Lisa Ensley Note: forwarded message attached. __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software http://sitebuilder.yahoo.com > ATTACHMENT part 2 message/rfc822 Date: Sun, 31 Aug 2003 01:20:57 -0400 (EDT) From: Tngranny1950@aol.com Subject: Fwd: I am Strawberry Shortcake To: AnniejoB@aol.com, Mom2totsnteens@aol.com, LChernack@aol.com, PokaDot240064697@aol.com, fibrobuds@groups.aol.com, JACKSSSOXOX@aol.com, FUNMOM55@aol.com, JULIAECPPL@aol.com, JnLHoogie@aol.com, legateb@bellsouth.net, BluLiteGlo@aol.com, Pooky1380@aol.com, Micki55555@aol.com, GUGGLEGOO@aol.com, PBove3274@aol.com, SANND505@aol.com, saconnolly@charter.net, TrishR4U@aol.com, Justvalorie@aol.com UNLESS~ It 's christmas and then I'm Carrot cake, oh I better read that one first. LOL > ATTACHMENT part 2.2 message/rfc822 From: Grandbingo@aol.com Date: Sat, 30 Aug 2003 23:44:42 EDT Subject: I am Carrot Cake To: JULIAECPPL@aol.com, fmsboards@groups.aol.com, SillyGals@aol.com, thx4life2003@yahoo.com, Tngranny1950@aol.com In a message dated 8/29/2003 7:02:05 PM Central Standard Time, JULIAECPPL@aol.com writes: > > > > >No cheating. Pick your cake, then look to see. Take this cake > > > >Personality test, then send this email on to others. When you send > this > > > >email on, put your cake in the subject box above. ALSO SEND IT TO THE > > > >PERSON WHO SENT IT TO YOU! (because I want to know!) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >If you were buying sweets and you had your choice of the following > > > >which would you choose? > > > > > > > > > >* Angel food > > > > >* Brownies > > > > >* Lemon Meringue > > > > >* Vanilla with Chocolate Icing > > > > >* Strawberry Short Cake > > > > >* Chocolate on Chocolate > > > > >* Ice Cream > > > > >* Carrot Cake > > > > > > > > > >OK- Now that you've made your choice, this is what research says > > >about > > > >you! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >NO.... you can't change your mind once you scroll down! So think > > > >carefully, > > > > >what your choice will be!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Angel food ... Sweet, loving, cuddly. You love all warm and fuzzy > > > >items. A little nutty at times. Sometimes you need an ice cream cone > at > > > >the end of the day. Others perceive you as being child-like and > >immature > > > >at times. > > > > > > > > > > Brownies.. You are adventurous, love new ideas, are a champion of > > > >underdogs and a slayer of dragons. When tempers flare up, you whip out > > > >your saber. You are always the oddball with a unique sense of humor > and > > > >direction. You tend to be very loyal. > > > > > > > > > >Lemon Meringue... Smooth, sexy, & articulate with your hands, you > are > > > >an excellent after-dinner speaker and a good teacher. But don't try to > > > > >walk and chew gum at the same time. A bit of a diva at times, but > you > > > >have many friends. > > > > > > > > > >Vanilla with Chocolate Icing ... Fun-loving, sassy, humorous. Not > >very > > > >grounded in life, very indecisive and lack motivation. Everyone enjoys > > > >being around you, but you are a practical joker. Others should be > > > >cautious in making you mad, however, you are a friend for life. > > > > > > > > > >Strawberry Short Cake ... Romantic, warm, loving. You care about > > > >otherStrawberry Short Cake ... Romantic, warm, loving. You care about > > > >other people and can be counted on in a pinch. You tend to melt. You > >can > > > >be overly-emotional and annoying at times. > > > > > > > > > >Chocolate on Chocolate . Sexy, always ready to give and receive. > Very > > > >creative, adventurous, ambitious, and passionate. You have a cold > > > >exterior but are warm on the inside. Not afraid to take chances. Will > > > >not settle for anything average in life. Love to laugh. > > > > > > > > > >Ice Cream... You like sports, whether it be baseball, football, > > > >basketball, or soccer. If you could, you would like to participate, > but > > > >you enjoy watching sports. You don't like to give up the remote > >control. > > > >You tend to be self-centered and high maintenance. > > > > > > > > > >Carrot Cake... You are a very fun loving person, who likes to laugh. > > > >You are fun to be with. People like to hang out with you. You are a > >very > > > >warm-hearted person and a little quirky at times. You have many loyal > > > >friends. > > > > > > > > > >******************DON'T FORGET ******************* > > > > >PUT YOUR CHOICE OF CAKE IN SUBJECT BOX ABOVE BEFORE YOU FORWARD!! Am proud member of the IBSSG --------------------------------- Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software

Thanks Dave, Mary Anne Cook IBSSG Frankfort, Indiana ----- Original Message ----- From: "Dave" <dave.tompsett@sympatico.ca> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Thursday, August 28, 2003 2:31 PM Subject: [BSChat] MAry Anne > Wow! your comment made this chat thread start to move! > You have told us too much for a "tender lamb" category, > but you've ***earned*** the "IBSSG" fer sure, with your own pain. > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Unsubscribe from the list: > Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsub scribe > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > >

Wow! your comment made this chat thread start to move! You have told us too much for a "tender lamb" category, but you've ***earned*** the "IBSSG" fer sure, with your own pain.

Thanks, I am just trying to ignore her for now. Right now it is easy. My son is in jail in FL because of her and she has moved across the street with another person of the male gender, hurting my son even more. The way I get through all of this is to just ignore her. Mary Anne Cook IBSSG Frankfort, Indiana ----- Original Message ----- From: <Mieownwmn@aol.com> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2003 8:34 PM Subject: Re: [BSChat] How I spent my summer vacation > dont waiste time and energy hating her. that gives her the control of your > feelings. i know it is hard with the grandson and son but you need to take > care of yourself too, > kathy > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Creative use of your delete key is encouraged. If you disagree with the subject, CHANGE the subject. > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > >

My son has always known how I feel about that girl and thank God he has never turned on me. We have had our arguments with me usually hanging up on him, but we still get along. He has now admitted that I was right all along and that he should have listened to me. Too late now, but that was his lesson to learn. I never had a Mother in law. She died when my ex-husband was only 15 and I did not meet him until he was 19. He still claims she would have loved me, but I don't know about that. Don't you know that is what grandparents are for is spoiling? Hehehe. I do it with mine too as much as I can, as I have 13 grandchildren and 1 GGrandson and am living off a very small ammount of disability now. I would never go so far as to ask mine about arguments or sex though. I proud myself on being the best Mother in law that I can be, I have had 3 son's in law at one time and have only 1 daughter in law. My son is my only son. None of them so far has commented on my being a bad one. Thank God. Of course, I would be the mother in law from hell if my son were to ever get a chance to marry this girl. I love my daughter in law like one of my own and anyone hurts any of my kids I fight back. I have never said anything about the way my grandchildren's Fathers treat them, but one time, and I felt I had to step in for my oldest grandson one time only. His Father is his step father. His little brother is his stepfather's real son. Of course he treats the two of them diffferently letting Andrew, the youngest, get away with everything and blaming Aaron for everything under the sun. One day when we were at their home for the weekend, Aaron was laying on his back on the living room floor watching tv with the rest of us and my daughter was in the kitchen. Andrew jumped on Aaron's stomach as hard as he could. Robbie started to blame Aaron for it saying he had done something to Andrew to make him do that. Well, I was watching them the entire time and saw what really happened. I told Robbie that I had been watching and had never taken my eye off them for a second and that Aaron had not done anything at all to Andrew. Robbie did not say another word to Aaron the rest of the day, but needless to say Andrew still got away with hurting his big brother, which was wrong. Mary Anne Cook IBSSG Frankfort, Indiana ----- Original Message ----- From: "Brenda Faye Parker" <fairplay51@yahoo.com> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Wednesday, August 27, 2003 10:56 AM Subject: Re: [BSChat] Re: very unliked girlfriend > You sure don't want to alienate your son!!!!! If he had to make a choice between a woman he loves and his mom, You might come out on losing end. Most mothers(myself included) think they know more about raising other peoples children than the mom does. > > My mother-in-law was always critical about my housekeeping, child raising, way i treated her son. Dropped in without being invited, usually at the wrong time.Called for help with everything. Fed my kids sweets/junk food. Spoiled my kids rotten by giving them almost anything they asked for. She even asked the kids about personal things(sex, money, arguments). If we had an argument always took her son's side, right or wrong. > > I finally convinced my husband we needed to move. Now she only sees her grandchildren 2-3 times a year. > > > Am proud member of the IBSSG > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site design software > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Unsubscribe from the list: > Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsub scribe > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > >

Yes it certainly does belong in that category. When my son asked me why this was happening to him I told him, " Think about it, what did you do to your wife?" "Now it is payback time." Believe me it hurt me more to have to say that to him than it did him, but it was the truth. He has 4 children now and when he becomes a grandparent, he certainly will fit into the Blacksheep category for his descendants, having been in prison for the first three years of his oldest son's life, in jail for a year of his daughters second year of life, facing another prison sentence now, in and out of jail since he was 15 and a philandering husband to boot having a child with his mistress. Yep a real blacksheep in my opiniion. He even called this girl his Fiancee and he is not even divorced form his wife. Yep payback big time. Even after all he has done his wife still loves him and would love to have him back. I hope he wises up and accepts her and forgets the mistress. Even after all the jail and prison time, being in jail for the birth of 2 of his children has not stopped her from loving him and being faithful to him. Mary Anne Cook Frankfort, Indiana ----- Original Message ----- From: "Bobby & Sue Bates" <bsbates@netease.net> To: <BLACKSHEEP-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2003 9:16 PM Subject: Re: [BSChat] How I spent my summer vacation > Mary Anne Cook wrote.... > >.... Now she has done to him the very same thing that she made him do to his wife and kids. Is it no wonder that I hate her so much?< > > Oh, me!!! Well, I guess that falls into the 'What Goes Around Comes Around' category. I can certainly understand where you're coming from, Mary Anne. Having been on the receiving end of a philandering (ex) spouse, in my experience, I'd have to say that it usually takes two in order for that type of situation to occur. > Cheer up, somewhere on down the road there's going to be someone that will do to that young lady what she's been doing to others...... (I would hope!) > Best, > SueB > http://www.cdbaby.com/suegilmore > > > > ==== BLACKSHEEP-CHAT Mailing List ==== > Unsubscribe from the list: > Mailto:Blacksheep-Chat-L-request@rootsweb.com?subject=unsubscribe&body=unsub scribe > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > >