To Sue Horsman I do not have a different event for a "one night stand" type of relationship. The word Partner might imply a longer relationship, but it could also be a one time sexual partner. So you can use Not Married for any type of relationship whether it is one time, or one week, or several years. John Steed ----- Original Message ----- From: "S Horsman" <horsman61@btinternet.com> To: <BK@rootsweb.com> Sent: Wednesday, February 01, 2012 10:33 AM Subject: [BK] Not Married I know that if you use the 'not married' event, against a couple it will use the word 'partner' instead of 'married' Nowadays 'partner' implies a more permanent relationship. I want to set up details of an illegitamate child, when both parents are known, but where one of the pair was already married to someone else. Is there any way that a new event {eg called Relationship} could be created to indicate that a couple had had a relationship which resulted in the child, and where the link did not show Married or Partner. Or is there a way of coping with this situation already Sue Horsman ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to BK-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message