Mary, I do understand that getting to know others .. especially strangers, isn't for everyone!! This list really is playful and for those of you that find it to time consuming, you might want to rely on the digest that comes out twice a day, check it for headlines that appeal to you and look specific subjects over in there... We certainly do not want you to miss out on important information!! Feel free to give us a try another time when you have more leisure time. Myfamily may also be the place for you to keep in touch with updates.... or pop in for a group chat sometime! Sincerely, Wendy