Hello--I'm new to the list and would like to introduce myself as the great great-granddaughter of Tophelia (or Mary) Bates who married Peter Grielen (or Greland? Name change). Tophelia was Peter's second wife. I think both were from Germany--and ended up in Massaschusets, probably Boston, where my great-grandfather, Peter J. Grielen lived in 1901. Does Tophelia sound familiar to anyone? Debbie Dale Washington state