I joined this group to learn about my Barnett ancestors and have had success, but it is very distasteful to me to find people unable to accept one another, including our idiosyncrasies. You may not like me and I may not like you, but let's have respect for one another and not get embroiled in a battle of temper and accusations, which may or may not be true. If I take exception with what you may say, I can always write to you personally and not air it on the genealogy site. If that doesn't work, there is always the DELETE key and I do use mine quite a lot. Jennie Vertrees