So would I. Even if she buys a new place, there's no guarantee that your daughter will still be there 10 years - or even 5. I'd move heaven and earth to have their ashes join the remains of other relatives in the same family, and get a plaque made to that effect. In 4 or 5 generations, the family historian is going to have some tremendous headaches if you don't! Donny [Dianne] http://au.geocities.com/donnyfay/ Henry Descendants http://au.geocities.com/diannefay/ Fensom Descendants -----Original Message----- From: kaye vernon [mailto:kjvernon@bigpond.net.au] Sent: Wednesday, 19 March 2003 5:15 PM To: AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] RE: Grave ownership I think I would go and ask permission to dig up the ashes and bury them at the cemetery with other ancestors. Kaye