Congratulations Gerry, Glad you have *matured*. Gets a bit confusing if you leave out members of the family just because they are female. And if we are going to be that technical if a girl did not marry and bought a son up with the family name where does that leave him? It is no different to a married sister except officially has no father's name. Enough complications with this pastime w/o going into those sort of questions. And most of us are people orientated so their feelings v important and it is just as important to be discrete as it is to be open in some cases. Your mother would be proud and so are we. Welcome to the other 50% of the world <grin>. Sandra ----- Original Message ----- From: "Gerry" <patmandu@iinet.net.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 8:48 AM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > Yep, I started my tree with only my paternal line in mind and as a mere male > didn't give much thought to t'other side. Having matured (aged another five > years) decided that the women of the world and the rakes and those > unfortunate young domestics whom were 'victims of the times' all had a place > in my 'tree'. I use Family Tree Maker V10 and it caters for any relationship > and allows you to 'hide' individuals from sensitive eyes when printing > details. Leave the 'blood lines' to those that study genetics, we study > people. > Regards > Gerry Patman > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 8:06 PM > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > hmmm, I have being continuing along the 'adoptive' line as it is Holmes > > which is my grandmothers maiden name, I guess you continue so far until > you > > get stuck and then try the other...another stick situation is - do you > > follow up on the 'convicts child to another convict but never married and > > never mentioned on any certificate's - it is a catch 22 - how many lines > off > > the tree can you have to show the real story???? > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Eliz Cook" <Elizcook@ains.net.au> > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:55 PM > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > Is it a bit like an adoption: there is a legal or accepted relationship > > AND > > > a blood one? > > > If I ever get the legal blood ones finished I plan to do the adoptive > > > bloodline. To my mind BOTH are important > > > but someone told me I was wrong and should only do the MALE bloodline > > > Elizabeth > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:43 PM > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > > > > I have a situation > > > > > > > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and > his > > > mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my GG > > > father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, > however > > > when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name > > being > > > FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > > > > > > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > ================================================================== > > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > records, > > > go to: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > ================================================================== > > > Anyone who wishes to make direct contact with Administrators > > > of this site may do so by Ray <batie@bigpond.net.au> > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > ============================== > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > records, > > go to: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded ? > ? > > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system > FREE ! > > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > > other sites you might want to check out . . . > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.ht > m > > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 > http://antivirus.cai.com/ > > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >