Hi Michelle, There are some FOXES in my tree also - please let me know if you think there is a connection: FOX, Cuthbert - b: bef 1817 - m: Ann NELSON, England (b: bef 1818) FOX, Cuthbert - b: 1836 Blyth, England - m: Johanna CONDON in 1862 (b: 1836 Newcastle, Lim. Ireland) Elizabeth Ann FOX b: 1864 Ballarat, Vic Reginald William FOX b: abt 1882 Vic. John Condon FOX b: 1869 Vic. Cuthbert FOX b: 1872 Queenscliffe - m: 1891 to Ellen/Helen Jane MOORE (b: 1868 Queenscliffe) Cuthbert Alan FOX b 1902 Vic - m: Muriel Alice HIPWELL (b: 1905) Peter Geoffrey Cuthbert FOX b: 1931 Judith Helen FOX b: 1934 Canberra, ACT Ivan Alan FOX b: 1935 Canberra Bruce Malcolm FOX b: 1936 Canberra regards Janet ----- Original Message ----- From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:43 PM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > I have a situation > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and his mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my GG father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, however when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name being FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > Cemetery Records on line:- > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

It is actually between Beechworth and Wodonga. Bronwen

I do the lot, Our tree is long and on the hubbys side complicated, with "steps" everywhere. How else would I have discovered that my 3 stepchildren are also my third cousins? Scary stuff, but all part of the history and in my view should be included, it just adds spice to the story.Just my view of course. Sandra Bribie Island, Queensland, Australia AUS-NSW-BLUEMOUNTAINS-L@rootsweb.com Listperson _________________________________________________________________ MSN Instant Messenger now available on Australian mobile phones. Go to http://ninemsn.com.au/mobilecentral/hotmail_messenger.asp

Hi Ray Yackandandah Cemetery is up past Albury/ Wodonga Wendy ----- Original Email ----- From: "Raymond W. Henderson" <batie@bigpond.net.au> To: AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com Date: 13-Apr-2003 22:38 Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Yackandandah Cemetery > I've just checked the whole of Wedderburn Cemetery and there are no TULK in their. > > Ray > > Wayne & Lyn wrote: > > > Hi Ray.... > > You are quick! :-) > > Thank you! I will check that out... > > Lyn F > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > Cemetery Records on line:- > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > >

Hi Wayne & Lyn The records are held at The Genealogy Society of Victoria 5th floor, Curtin House Melb 3000 Wendy Tucknott ----- Original Email ----- From: "Raymond W. Henderson" <batie@bigpond.net.au> To: AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com Date: 13-Apr-2003 21:59 Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Yackandandah Cemetery > I don't know if there is a Cemetery at Yackandah, I think you'll find that Wedderburn would be the closest as their is not a Cemetery listed for Yackandah. > > Regards, > Ray. > > Wayne & Lyn wrote: > > > Hi... > > Would anyone know if it is possible to find out any details on burials in Yackandandah? I have a TULK family that lived there around the early 1900's. I was hoping to check out the cemetery in some way to see if Henry TULK or his wife Eva TULK nee SKILLEREN are buried there at all. > > Kind regards > > > > Lyn F in Melb > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded ? ? > > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system FREE ! > > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > > other sites you might want to check out . . . > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.htm > > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 http://antivirus.cai.com/ > > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > Cemetery Records on line:- > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > >

Hi Folks, No problem Ray... good of you to check out the Wedderburn cemetery also. Out of curiosity Ray...how many cemeteries are there on that list? I will send a letter to the trust thanks Jackie..... Kind regards Lyn F in Melb

I'll follow it through. Interesting point, I got the whole of the Victorian cemetery listings from D.O.H.S. and nothing about Yackandah my mistake sorry. Regards, Ray. Jackie C wrote: > Ray, > There's a cemetery at Yackandandah - had a stroll through it last month - > very pretty and on a hill. > I'm sure a letter to Yackandandah Cemetery Trust, Yackandandah, would find > the right person. > Jackie > > -----Original Message----- > From: Raymond W. Henderson [mailto:batie@bigpond.net.au] > Sent: Monday, 14 April 2003 12:39 AM > To: AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] > Yackandandah Cemetery > > I've just checked the whole of Wedderburn Cemetery and there are no TULK in > their. > > Ray > > Wayne & Lyn wrote: > > > Hi Ray.... > > You are quick! :-) > > Thank you! I will check that out... > > Lyn F > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > Cemetery Records on line:- > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go > to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237

Ray, There's a cemetery at Yackandandah - had a stroll through it last month - very pretty and on a hill. I'm sure a letter to Yackandandah Cemetery Trust, Yackandandah, would find the right person. Jackie -----Original Message----- From: Raymond W. Henderson [mailto:batie@bigpond.net.au] Sent: Monday, 14 April 2003 12:39 AM To: AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Yackandandah Cemetery I've just checked the whole of Wedderburn Cemetery and there are no TULK in their. Ray Wayne & Lyn wrote: > Hi Ray.... > You are quick! :-) > Thank you! I will check that out... > Lyn F > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== ================================================================== Cemetery Records on line:- http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ ================================================================== ============================== To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237

I've just checked the whole of Wedderburn Cemetery and there are no TULK in their. Ray Wayne & Lyn wrote: > Hi Ray.... > You are quick! :-) > Thank you! I will check that out... > Lyn F > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237

Hi Ray.... You are quick! :-) Thank you! I will check that out... Lyn F

I don't know if there is a Cemetery at Yackandah, I think you'll find that Wedderburn would be the closest as their is not a Cemetery listed for Yackandah. Regards, Ray. Wayne & Lyn wrote: > Hi... > Would anyone know if it is possible to find out any details on burials in Yackandandah? I have a TULK family that lived there around the early 1900's. I was hoping to check out the cemetery in some way to see if Henry TULK or his wife Eva TULK nee SKILLEREN are buried there at all. > Kind regards > > Lyn F in Melb > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded ? ? > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system FREE ! > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > other sites you might want to check out . . . > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.htm > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 http://antivirus.cai.com/ > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237

Hi... Would anyone know if it is possible to find out any details on burials in Yackandandah? I have a TULK family that lived there around the early 1900's. I was hoping to check out the cemetery in some way to see if Henry TULK or his wife Eva TULK nee SKILLEREN are buried there at all. Kind regards Lyn F in Melb

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wow they are pricey,I wonder how far forward do they go with births and deaths this seems tobe where i stumble. ----- Original Message ----- From: Ann Cain <gbcain@bigpond.com> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Thursday, April 10, 2003 9:34 PM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] NSW BDM CD > You won't get them any cheaper legally. > Maybe you should check with your local library or FHS to see if they have > them, or are willing to get them. > > Regards, > Bruce > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Thursday, April 10, 2003 9:18 PM > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] NSW BDM CD > > > > goodness me - they are not cheap but I guess they save money overall > instead > > of ordering cert. all the time, no cheaper sites that you are aware of > > Bruce? > > > > Michelle > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Ann Cain" <gbcain@bigpond.com> > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Thursday, April 10, 2003 8:59 PM > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] NSW BDM CD > > > > > > > Also thru: > > > http://www.macbeth.com.au/products/bdms.php > > > > > > Regards, > > > Bruce Cain > > > > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > Sent: Thursday, April 10, 2003 11:20 AM > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] NSW BDM CD > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi > > > > > > > > Can someone fill me in on purchasing NSW BDM index CD's what do they > > hold > > > > on them, I assume they hold more info than just the registration no > you > > > can get > > > > over the internet... > > > > > > > > Do you get the actual dates etc? > > > > > > > > Any recommendations on the best place to buy these? > > > > > > > > Michelle > > > > CAIRNS > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > ================================================================== > > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > records, > > > go to: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > ================================================================== > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > ============================== > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > records, > > go to: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > ================================================================== > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > Cemetery Records on line:- > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

i have to agree research the lot that way you get the true picture, another thing i am big on is If you dont get the true story good or bad and oh boy there has been some ordinary stuff come up on my mothers side,then you dont get the history and that is what i want to know the history of my family.Its not sticky beaking just seeing it as it was.Also we will never know,what circumstances caused some of the things that happened way back,one thing we do know is that they had it pretty hard, and thanks to those forebearers good or bad for making it possible for us to be here today. ----- Original Message ----- From: Derek & Di Reid <derekdi@gcom.net.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 6:55 AM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > I would definately research the Fox line > Di > > > I have a situation > > > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and his > mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my GG > father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, however > when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name being > FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > ================================================================== > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > Cemetery Records on line:- > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

Gee My dad abandoned me at 8 weeks of age Should I abandom the line? here I am at 48 chatting quite happily to older family members who never knew I existed till I came to these lists.I have now over 4000 names just on my paternal side. Christene ----- Original Message ----- From: "Brian & Sandra Magee" <sanbri@optusnet.com.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 3:28 PM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > Congratulations Gerry, > > Glad you have *matured*. Gets a bit confusing if you leave out members of > the family just because they are female. And if we are going to be that > technical if a girl did not marry and bought a son up with the family name > where does that leave him? It is no different to a married sister except > officially has no father's name. Enough complications with this pastime w/o > going into those sort of questions. And most of us are people orientated so > their feelings v important and it is just as important to be discrete as it > is to be open in some cases. Your mother would be proud and so are we. > Welcome to the other 50% of the world <grin>. > > Sandra > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Gerry" <patmandu@iinet.net.au> > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 8:48 AM > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to > do? > > > > Yep, I started my tree with only my paternal line in mind and as a mere > male > > didn't give much thought to t'other side. Having matured (aged another > five > > years) decided that the women of the world and the rakes and those > > unfortunate young domestics whom were 'victims of the times' all had a > place > > in my 'tree'. I use Family Tree Maker V10 and it caters for any > relationship > > and allows you to 'hide' individuals from sensitive eyes when printing > > details. Leave the 'blood lines' to those that study genetics, we study > > people. > > Regards > > Gerry Patman > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 8:06 PM > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > hmmm, I have being continuing along the 'adoptive' line as it is Holmes > > > which is my grandmothers maiden name, I guess you continue so far until > > you > > > get stuck and then try the other...another stick situation is - do you > > > follow up on the 'convicts child to another convict but never married > and > > > never mentioned on any certificate's - it is a catch 22 - how many lines > > off > > > the tree can you have to show the real story???? > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Eliz Cook" <Elizcook@ains.net.au> > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:55 PM > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > > > > Is it a bit like an adoption: there is a legal or accepted > relationship > > > AND > > > > a blood one? > > > > If I ever get the legal blood ones finished I plan to do the adoptive > > > > bloodline. To my mind BOTH are important > > > > but someone told me I was wrong and should only do the MALE bloodline > > > > Elizabeth > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:43 PM > > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a situation > > > > > > > > > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and > > his > > > > mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my > GG > > > > father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, > > however > > > > when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name > > > being > > > > FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > > > > > > > > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > > records, > > > > go to: > > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > ================================================================== > > > > Anyone who wishes to make direct contact with Administrators > > > > of this site may do so by Ray <batie@bigpond.net.au> > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > records, > > > go to: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > ================================================================== > > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > > ================================================================== > > > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > > > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > > > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded > ? > > ? > > > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > > > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system > > FREE ! > > > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > > > other sites you might want to check out . . . > > > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.ht > > m > > > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 > > http://antivirus.cai.com/ > > > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > > > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > > > > > ============================== > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > records, > > go to: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

Congratulations Gerry, Glad you have *matured*. Gets a bit confusing if you leave out members of the family just because they are female. And if we are going to be that technical if a girl did not marry and bought a son up with the family name where does that leave him? It is no different to a married sister except officially has no father's name. Enough complications with this pastime w/o going into those sort of questions. And most of us are people orientated so their feelings v important and it is just as important to be discrete as it is to be open in some cases. Your mother would be proud and so are we. Welcome to the other 50% of the world <grin>. Sandra ----- Original Message ----- From: "Gerry" <patmandu@iinet.net.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 8:48 AM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > Yep, I started my tree with only my paternal line in mind and as a mere male > didn't give much thought to t'other side. Having matured (aged another five > years) decided that the women of the world and the rakes and those > unfortunate young domestics whom were 'victims of the times' all had a place > in my 'tree'. I use Family Tree Maker V10 and it caters for any relationship > and allows you to 'hide' individuals from sensitive eyes when printing > details. Leave the 'blood lines' to those that study genetics, we study > people. > Regards > Gerry Patman > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 8:06 PM > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > hmmm, I have being continuing along the 'adoptive' line as it is Holmes > > which is my grandmothers maiden name, I guess you continue so far until > you > > get stuck and then try the other...another stick situation is - do you > > follow up on the 'convicts child to another convict but never married and > > never mentioned on any certificate's - it is a catch 22 - how many lines > off > > the tree can you have to show the real story???? > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Eliz Cook" <Elizcook@ains.net.au> > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:55 PM > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > Is it a bit like an adoption: there is a legal or accepted relationship > > AND > > > a blood one? > > > If I ever get the legal blood ones finished I plan to do the adoptive > > > bloodline. To my mind BOTH are important > > > but someone told me I was wrong and should only do the MALE bloodline > > > Elizabeth > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:43 PM > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > > > > I have a situation > > > > > > > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and > his > > > mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my GG > > > father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, > however > > > when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name > > being > > > FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > > > > > > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > ================================================================== > > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > records, > > > go to: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > ================================================================== > > > Anyone who wishes to make direct contact with Administrators > > > of this site may do so by Ray <batie@bigpond.net.au> > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > ============================== > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > records, > > go to: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded ? > ? > > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system > FREE ! > > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > > other sites you might want to check out . . . > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.ht > m > > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 > http://antivirus.cai.com/ > > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >

I agree 100% with Gerry and Robyn. I have remarried and my husband has been 'father' to my son for 4/5th's of his life. So should I include him in the family tree when he is no blood relation to my son? Of course!! I am including both his biological father and the 'father' that has reared him, after all it is the non biological father who has been there for him in the middle of the night, helped him with school work, worked on his car, been to his school activities, loaned him $$$ etc etc..... I also have 2 first cousins who I have always known were adopted, they are no less my cousins than my biological ones are, I have known them all my life. My son's new girlfriend is adopted, and as I said to my son, well there is not much difference in her being adopted to him having a step father - both parents have reared these children as their own. Charmaine ----- Original Message ----- From: "Gerry" <patmandu@iinet.net.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 8:48 AM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > Yep, I started my tree with only my paternal line in mind and as a mere male > didn't give much thought to t'other side. Having matured (aged another five > years) decided that the women of the world and the rakes and those > unfortunate young domestics whom were 'victims of the times' all had a place > in my 'tree'. I use Family Tree Maker V10 and it caters for any relationship > and allows you to 'hide' individuals from sensitive eyes when printing > details. Leave the 'blood lines' to those that study genetics, we study > people. > Regards > Gerry Patman > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 8:06 PM > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > hmmm, I have being continuing along the 'adoptive' line as it is Holmes > > which is my grandmothers maiden name, I guess you continue so far until > you > > get stuck and then try the other...another stick situation is - do you > > follow up on the 'convicts child to another convict but never married and > > never mentioned on any certificate's - it is a catch 22 - how many lines > off > > the tree can you have to show the real story???? > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Eliz Cook" <Elizcook@ains.net.au> > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:55 PM > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > Is it a bit like an adoption: there is a legal or accepted relationship > > AND > > > a blood one? > > > If I ever get the legal blood ones finished I plan to do the adoptive > > > bloodline. To my mind BOTH are important > > > but someone told me I was wrong and should only do the MALE bloodline > > > Elizabeth > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:43 PM > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > > > > I have a situation > > > > > > > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and > his > > > mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my GG > > > father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, > however > > > when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name > > being > > > FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > > > > > > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > ================================================================== > > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > records, > > > go to: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > ================================================================== > > > Anyone who wishes to make direct contact with Administrators > > > of this site may do so by Ray <batie@bigpond.net.au> > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > ============================== > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > records, > > go to: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded ? > ? > > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system > FREE ! > > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > > other sites you might want to check out . . . > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.ht > m > > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 > http://antivirus.cai.com/ > > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > >

Good morning everyone, thank you to all for feedback on my situation, and YES I agree I should do all tangents, looking forward to the mysteries. Michelle

Well put Gerry. You are quite right. It is people we are getting together, not blood lines, although as I said before, just in case they want my blood for a rellie we looked after, there is no way I could be compatible, as I am no relation at all, so I have listed her actual parents on my tree. You know what family stands for? F - father, A for and, M for mother, and ILY, I love you. We are all family in the global sense, but our own is special to us, unique, and if we record the good, the bad and the ugly, it also shows we are only human after all. robyndehood. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Gerry" <patmandu@iinet.net.au> To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, April 12, 2003 8:48 AM Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > Yep, I started my tree with only my paternal line in mind and as a mere male > didn't give much thought to t'other side. Having matured (aged another five > years) decided that the women of the world and the rakes and those > unfortunate young domestics whom were 'victims of the times' all had a place > in my 'tree'. I use Family Tree Maker V10 and it caters for any relationship > and allows you to 'hide' individuals from sensitive eyes when printing > details. Leave the 'blood lines' to those that study genetics, we study > people. > Regards > Gerry Patman > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 8:06 PM > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > hmmm, I have being continuing along the 'adoptive' line as it is Holmes > > which is my grandmothers maiden name, I guess you continue so far until > you > > get stuck and then try the other...another stick situation is - do you > > follow up on the 'convicts child to another convict but never married and > > never mentioned on any certificate's - it is a catch 22 - how many lines > off > > the tree can you have to show the real story???? > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Eliz Cook" <Elizcook@ains.net.au> > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:55 PM > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] Re: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > Is it a bit like an adoption: there is a legal or accepted relationship > > AND > > > a blood one? > > > If I ever get the legal blood ones finished I plan to do the adoptive > > > bloodline. To my mind BOTH are important > > > but someone told me I was wrong and should only do the MALE bloodline > > > Elizabeth > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Michelle Edwards" <shelledwards@optusnet.com.au> > > > To: <AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES-L@rootsweb.com> > > > Sent: Friday, April 11, 2003 9:43 PM > > > Subject: [[AUS-CEM]] What to do? > > > > > > > > > > I have a situation > > > > > > > > I have got to my GG father, who was born a Fox, his father died and > his > > > mother remarried a Holmes whilst my GG father was young, therefore my GG > > > father 'adopted' the name Holmes and married etc under this name, > however > > > when doing family research - should you also research his 'real' name > > being > > > FOX to make it an accurate family tree? > > > > > > > > What do you do in this circumstance? > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > > ================================================================== > > > > Cemetery Records on line:- > > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~batman/ > > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > > > ============================== > > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > > records, > > > go to: > > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > > ================================================================== > > > Anyone who wishes to make direct contact with Administrators > > > of this site may do so by Ray <batie@bigpond.net.au> > > > ================================================================== > > > > > > ============================== > > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy > records, > > go to: > > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > > ================================================================== > > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > > ================================================================== > > Hey have you updated your AntiVirus program lately ? ? > > Is your AV continuously activated while online ? ? > > Does your AV continue to check each and every email as it is down loaded ? > ? > > Does your AV continue to check every Website you inter into ? ? > > Better to be safe than sorry . . . let HouseCall check out your system > FREE ! > > http://housecall.antivirus.com/. > > other sites you might want to check out . . . > > > http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~clifflamere/Aid/AID-VirusProtect.ht > m > > -this one mentioned in Missing Links Vol. 5 No. 44 > http://antivirus.cai.com/ > > - this one was mentioned on the Listowner List > > http://www.grisoft.com/html/us_index.cfm > > > > ============================== > > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, > go to: > > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > > > > > > ==== AUSTRALIA-CEMETERIES Mailing List ==== > ================================================================== > "Please "do not" post virus warnings to the list. > ================================================================== > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 >