One of my ancestors in Victoria was named a "Gentleman", and his wife a "Lady", on various documents in the 1850's, 60's. In England before their arrival the wife was a domestic servant. He was a mariner. I imagine this terminology was used because he had land and money. I have looked up the dictionary and found this but I don't think he was a man of refined manners. Or how does one know if he was a man well born? 1. A man well born; one of good family; one above the condition of a yeoman. 2. One of gentle or refined manners; a well-bred man. 3. (Her.) One who bears arms, but has no title. 4. The servant of a man of rank. The count's gentleman, one Cesario. --Shak. Any thoughts on this is very much appreciated. Best wishes Amanda - Sydney, NSW.