I think it is courtesy to talk to the Cemetery Trust before you do anything in their cemetery. In Victoria you are supposed to contact the local Cemetery Trust, I have a feeling it is in the rules from the Government that you need to contact them before you erect anything, be a headstone cross or anything else. We charge $50, because being a small cemetery we don't have much income, every little bit helps, most trusts would ask for a small amount of money for you to mark a grave, some may ask for a donation. Dianne Hughes Secretary Teesdale Cemetery Trust