Well Hi Diddley Di, It would seem that finally we do have a connection, my Gr Grandma was Elizabeth Waters and she is the only one I have a photo of. I have found that Arundel/le and Elisha married sisters Eliza and Elizabeth Oatey in a double wedding in Christ Church Kapunda 20/08/1859. My Gr grandma was the daughter of William (b1837) and Elizabeth Adams at Terowie This Elizabeth married James Paterson at the home of her parents in Terowie by Rev Sneed. Would be more than happy to hear from you anytime. I'll send photo direct. Col STILL soggy on the Gold Coast