I am looking for the death of Mary Henderson possibly after 1900.She would have been born about 1833 in Cork Ireland.She married Samuel John Parker Gill in 1859 in Horsham Vic.Samuel supposedly died about 1864 in Chiltern Vic.and Mary remarried a John Henderson.She had a son to John Henderson -Alexander.She also had two sons to Samuel.Somewhere the three boys have changed their surnames to Parker.I suspect there would have not been an official way to change names pre 1900.Deed poll didn't come into being until after 1900.An old Aunt told me years ago that Mary and her 2nd husband(John Henderson) moved to the ?Murrumbidgee area.They had a property there.The husband spent any money they had on alcohol and when Mary died the boys "got nothing".Another story is that Mary was a publican in the Riverina area but I cannot find that either.Alexander was my Grandfather and he died in1952 in Dubbo.His half brothers' names were William Henry Gill and (?Samuel) John Gill.Mary's maiden name was Bressinan/Brushingham/Bristowhen/Bristonhem or any similar spelling.Seems Mary could not read or write so anything looked ok.Hoping sks may be able to help me some how.I cannot find Samuel John Parker Gills' death either in Vic.or NSW.Regards Elaine