HI Bob..by contacting the Kiama family History centre you will be able to find a bit more info..... if they can give you a deffinate place of burial I will be able to supply pics of headstone for you go here...email them and ask...costs of research etc http://www.kiama.nsw.gov.au/community-services/family-history-centre/index.html I have a Graham family in my line as well John and Ellen have 4 children James bn Ireland 1843 Peter bn Ire 1846 Bernard Queanbeyan here 1857 and Ellen bn here 1859 Christene