Hi Shelly, That is the one thing I did not ask the funeral home. I had so many other things on my mind when I called plus I was calling long distance and I wanted to be sure I got all my other important questions in there. You keep coming up with good questions. I guess I am going to have to call the funeral home again and see if they know. All they would tell me is that the records were so old that all they had was the name of the cemetery. They didn't have anything else in their files. They may have assumed that I knew about the headstone, etc. and didn't even mention it. All they said is that the sextant of the cemetery would have the information as to the lot #, who all is buried there and any other information. Sue [email protected] ----- Original Message ----- From: "Kevin & Shelly Keech" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Thursday, January 10, 2002 12:34 PM Subject: Re: [ARWHITE] Looking for tombstones in Oak Grove... > Wouldn't it be nice if every one were so considerate. If it did break, etc, > they wouldn't know who to call because they wouldn't of known which funeral > home put it there and so on. If they knew the family, if the family were > local, than that's different. It's really just up to the family to check on > these things around here. The caretaker just gets paid to mow or make sure > someone mows and to make sure folks are buried in the correct spots, as far > as I know. Like everything, some are more organized than others. Also, > sometimes if someone is buried beside a small tree, the tree grows and > crumbles the stone. That's also a possibility. Did the funeral home say if > a tombstone was purchased through them? If one wasn't there is a good > chance there was never one made. Shelly