Barb, My heart goes out to you in the loss of your sister. I have a sister, and I can't begin to imagine the pain it must bring to lose one. But I hope you'll be feeling like at coming to the c-party. I think you'd enjoy just sitting by the fire with all of us, letting the flames' hypnotic effect soothe your heart. I wouldn't intrude on your thoughts, except to give you some big hugs from time to time. They're something I'm known for- in a good way. So fight whatever temptation you may feel to be an isolate, okay? Cuz your family is with you, caring for you. Jill PS- What part of MO are you in? I've got a bunch of Stepp/Lloyd relatives around the Cape Girardeau area. __________________ "Gypsy gold does not chink and glitter. It gleams in the sun and neighs in the dark." Gypsy saying