There is a M. CARR, age 16, who married John MYERS, age 22, on 16 March 1871 at res. of N.E. Brady, LD, Book C page 515. This girl age 16 would have a dob of about 1855/56. The only male CARR is Joseph M., age 21 married Isabella A. LOWERY age 23 on 29 March 1866, Book C page 148. The date of this marriage would be too early for your Joseph you mention in your email.