1900 Fulton Co., AR -- Cleveland Twp. -- 15 Jun 1900 -- p. 254 Sexton, Harvey 38 Oct 1861 AR AR AR Head md. 23 yrs. Frances E. 32 May 1868 TN TN TN Wife 9 ch./9 liv. Anabell 20 Aug 1879 AR AR TN Daughter Thomas L. 18 Jul 1881 AR AR TN Son J??? 16 Dec 1883 AR AR TN Daughter William N. 14 Feb 1886 AR AR TN Son James O. 12 Apr 1888 AR AR TN Son Henry M. 8 Oct 1891 AR AR TN Son Berthy P. 6 Aug 1893 AR AR TN Daughter Charley F. 4 Jan 1896 AR AR TN Son John W. 11/12 Jun 1899 AR AR TN Son Mahala 79 Jan 1821 AL AL AL Mother wd. Oscar is listed as 21 in the 1910 census in April and 32 in the 1920 census in January. I'd say the year on the tombstone is wrong. Just because it's etched in stone doesn't make it right. You might also try to get a copy of his death certificate.