having that problem too, as well as signing on time. I've never had anything but AOL, but they are driving me away and I don't think it is going to get any better. My two adult grandsons sweat by hotmail or gmail and I am about to follow them to that path. It's free and they never seem to have any of these problems. Patricia In a message dated 11/22/2009 12:00:18 A.M. Pacific Standard Time, aolers-rootsweb-request@rootsweb.com writes: several minutes to go from "welcome" to "You've got mail". In the meantime, I