I am amazed at some people. Where would we be if the generous souls of other people didn't share what they know with others. If someone want's to keep all their research to themselves, then why do they come onto a mailing list. Why do they complain that they are being "used" ? There is a word in the dictionary that says "NO" If they don't want to share, they can use that word, but as stated before, why be here. I found so many generous people last week, my first on this site, that I couldn't believe it. They helped me tremendously, and I can't thank them enough. Also all the other people I've found on the web that helped me research my family, to the point that I have found loved ones that we had no idea where they might be. Let these people that think they are little Gods, stay in their closet, and I hope they suffocate in their own paper work. It will all die with them, as they are to stingy to share. Thank you, and I will always help someone if I can possibly do so. It gives me great pleasure to do just that, and I have. I never charge for my mailings, or copying of documents. I feel the old saying of "What goes around,comes around, and that goes for genealogy too. A BIG THANK YOU! TO ALL WHO REALLY CARE!