Hey Dan, this is a public forum, not a paid private site. So my advise to you is this. If you don't like what you read you are free to unsubscribe yourself, or simply delete the messages you feel are unsuitable and inappropriate. Your email to Nelda by the way, is borderline Harassment, but that is only my opinion and if you don't like this one, you can delete it too. Kevin D. Smeltzer