Lorie, Don't fell bad, I too have done the same thing, thinking it was legit and it wasn't and like you not knowing important things about the mail lists......and people sent me some really mean messages, I couldn't believe how mean telling me how stupid I was and didn't deserve to be online and lots of things I couldn't believe they were so vicious.............some folks just don't have any class or forgiveness in them......ya know everybody makes mistakes and they make more than just once in life.....don't let it get you down and try and get the red out of your face.......it wasn't a horrible mistakes just a minor one.......even though some folks don't treat it that way....it will be ok..........My head can still turn red just thinking about what all they said to me and that wasn't necessary..........just a simple no no with an explanation would do just fine My husbands Great Grandma was Elizabeth Harrell born 8-19-1854 in Camilla, Baker co., Ga married to William Culpepper born 9-2--1846 in unknown they were married 11-19-1874 in Beulah church in Henry Co., alabama (see how I made this genealogy-related so noone would be mad at me) Anyway just wanted you to know there are other people out there like you ( I am way grown too with a short online vocabulary and I don't spell good either....but I don't care....I try hard to do good and that's what counts) Also I get the Alabama Mail List and I will gladly forward it to you if you would like......Let me know. Vicki McGlaun Culpepper McGlaughon/McGlauhon/McGlohon/McGlaun Mail List Owner I<< I would like to apologize to everyone that received a spam from my e-mail. I just found out what a spam is the hard way!!! Before today I didn't know what a spam was??? I know you all think I'm stupid, but with three restuarants to run, a home and a teenager I don't have time to keep up on internet lingo. I received a joke about a "Cookie Recipe" from another genealogist and thought it was legitamate. However, I found out it was an old joke!! Joke was on me, because I was already kicked off the Alabama genealogy list for spamming faster than my head could spin. Hope everyone else doesn't fall into this trap. If anyone wants the e-mail to the person that did this to me, I would be glad to post. She may not have known either about this type of bad Joke. I have e-mailed her to see why she did it. The sad part is I had been helping all these sites for free, look-ups, free snail mail for folks that couldn't open files and free photo's at my expense. Not one time did I get to express what had happened to me before I was judge and hanged by a one person jury. The ax fell today! Thanks everyone for your help, Lorie Harrell QSCV@twave.net